(Some resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-80 the Trevor Project, 1-86 Trans Lifeline, 87.) If you or anyone else reading this is contemplating suicide, please reach out to someone you trust. Because fantasizing about killing yourself-for whatever reason-technically counts as suicidal ideation. You’re not actually suicidal, right? I know you already said you weren’t, HANGED, but I want to double-check. Horny And Nervous Guy’s Endangering Deeds On the other hand, I know that trying to repress sexual desires is a hopeless endeavor and trying to keep these fantasies in check might result in a scenario where they boil over and I end up engaging in riskier behavior than I would have otherwise. Asphyxiation itself isn’t my kink, and other methods of committing suicide also turn me on.) My question is this: Given that I don’t want these fantasy scenarios to ever become reality, should I indulge the fantasy through healthy, safe play with a responsible partner or should I try to repress it and shut it down? I’m worried that if I indulge the fantasies through safe scenarios, I might reach a point where the safety precautions interfere with the thrill. (To be clear: Autoerotic asphyxiation gets a lot of press, but that’s not the situation here. I’m turned on by the fantasy of hanging myself, but that’s not really how I want my life to end. I’m not depressed, I love living, and despite this sexual impulse, I don’t want to kill myself. I recognize how crazy that is, and I want to emphasize that I’m not suicidal. I’ve never admitted this to anyone: The idea of committing suicide turns me on sexually. Want to be poorer? Donate a big chunk of your assets to homeless shelters and/or nonprofits that assist those experiencing homelessness in your area. There’s nothing moral about making their plight worse than it already is.įinally, DIRTY, while you’re able to fantasize about being stripped of your assets and left homeless, there are real people out there who have nothing and don’t find anything about being homelessness arousing. But don’t give her everything and actually wind up homeless, DIRTY, because then you’ll wind up competing for scarce shelter beds and other resources with men, women, and children who didn’t choose to become homeless because it made their dicks hard. Find a woman who’s into findom (financial domination) and give her some or most of your money and play dress up on the weekends and sleep in her backyard. You’re turned on by the thought of a cruel woman taking absolutely everything from you and leaving you homeless? Great. But this is definitely a fantasy-morally speaking-that can’t be fully realized. Just like AURAL, DIRTY, I’m not here to yuck anyone’s yum. I’m not gonna lecture you about how homelessness is a tragedy for individuals and a national crisis that the administration of Orange Julius Caesar is unlikely to prioritize. My question is this: Is it moral to live out this fantasy, considering the plight of homeless people?ĭesiring Interesting Role-Play That’s Yucky ![]() I like dressing up dirty-face, clothing, and all-and even going so far as to look through garbage cans. My ultimate fantasy is to be stripped of my assets by a woman and then (most importantly) made homeless. I have a particular fetish that I’ve never fully disclosed to anybody. ![]() So both are risky practices best avoided-but, hey, if PIE (penis in ear) sex is actually a thing, I invite any hardcore ear kinksters out there reading this to write in and explain exactly how that works. Dicks don’t fit in ear canals, and blasting semen into someone’s ear could cause a nasty ear infection. Most ear fetish stuff-including the thousands of ear fetish videos on YouTube-is about tugging, rubbing, or licking someone’s ear and not about fucking someone in the ear or coming in someone’s ear canal. A foot fetish is a partialism, for example, as is an ear fetish or an armpit fetish. (Sex noises can arouse almost anyone who hears them, of course, so technically we’re all auralists.) An ear fetish, on the other hand, is a kind of partialism, i.e., a sexual interest in one part of the body (often parts not typically found in pants). People into auralism are sexually aroused by sounds-it could be a voice or music or sex noises. But we need to distinguish between auralism, AURAL, and an ear fetish.
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